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Forum: Psychotherapy 08-05-2021, 05:08 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I'm sad to be going with Zoom tomorrow instead of in person, but I know it's the right thing to do for multiple reasons. Possibly I could see you in person one day next week if you're still...
Forum: Psychotherapy 08-04-2021, 09:11 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Do I tell you that I'm bothered that you apparently weren't being as careful as you'd suggested you were being? You presented one picture to me before, but then what you described regarding...
Forum: Psychotherapy 08-04-2021, 11:12 AM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Today's half-session really helped me understand. Thank you. It means a lot that it's more that you're concerned about possibly infecting me (and then D) than vice versa. Gotta say, I was a...
Forum: Psychotherapy 08-03-2021, 04:59 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
It really hurt that you said you regretted going back to in-person. Yes, it was because you may need to switch back soon, and you said you didn't want it to be a yo-yo thing. But it still...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-31-2021, 07:35 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Tonight (while on a date night, no less), I started to have this feeling that you care about my well-being more than H does. Based on his reaction to a few things I said. Like, trying to...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-30-2021, 08:28 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I think you would find this a positive thing? Rewatching Frida, to watch someone manage to create art and have hope amidst her physical (and presumably mental) struggles. Maybe this is the...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-30-2021, 12:48 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
A little sad we need to do virtual Sunday, but I know that's about your schedule, not Covid. I hope you are in fact willing to continue in person for the rest of next week. And maybe the...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-29-2021, 09:20 AM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I really hope you're not mad at me for sending that email. Or annoyed. Or frustrated. I know it's OK if you are, but I still don't want you to be. I suppose it was an unfair request. And...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-28-2021, 05:05 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I'm going to try to just appreciate the sessions we have in person as a gift. Rather than worrying each in-person session might be the last if you decide you'd feel safer going virtual...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-27-2021, 05:18 PM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I'm really worried about the Covid updates. We *just* resumed in-person sessions yesterday, and I'm worried you're already going to pull the plug (or, I guess, put the plug back in, for...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-26-2021, 06:05 AM
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Sorry to send the email, but I just wanted to make sure we're still on for meeting in person today. It would have been different if last week had been a normal week, as I'd have confirmed...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-24-2021, 10:18 AM
Replies: 1,013
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
This has seriously felt like the longest 10-day stretch ever, and I'm still somehow only on day 8. The thing on Tuesday really messed me up in some ways because I felt awful the next couple...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-22-2021, 08:23 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear R (backup T),
Sorry if that email was sort of harsh and formal, but I really did feel pressured into agreeing to let you talk to Dr. T today. I don't understand why it's so important you say...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-21-2021, 09:55 AM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Thank you for that email. It really meant a lot. I was expecting some tossed off sentence with your being away, but you clearly put thought into it. And I could feel the caring from you,...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-20-2021, 04:18 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Major internal battle on whether to reach out to you right now or not... I know you won't read/reply till the morning (well, maybe you'd read before, but wouldn't reply till morning). Maybe...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-19-2021, 12:22 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I had this thought of you sitting on the beach drinking a piña colada. Then I was like, "No, you're totally drinking coffee, and not iced either." I'm struggling a bit, but managing. Trying...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-16-2021, 10:10 AM
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Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Sorry for the sobbing patheticness of the last 10 minutes of the session. Thanks for being compassionate and understanding about it. And for saying you have confidence I'll get through it....
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-10-2021, 06:25 PM
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Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
You made this comment about how I wasn't sad all the time in the past year and a half, how it was probably just a small part of the time, that I was likely content for most of it. I don't...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-09-2021, 02:40 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I just want you to tell me that it will be OK, no matter what I talk about, that you're not going anywhere, that you'll manage whatever discomfort you might have, that our relationship will...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-09-2021, 11:05 AM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Sorry I was so disorganized at the end of session. I just want to be able to talk about certain things, because I think they're important to my full narrative. But what you said is accurate,...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-08-2021, 06:41 AM
Replies: 1,013
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Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
I really appreciate your response. Particularly how you added that you look forward to continuing our work tomorrow.
Love,
LT
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-07-2021, 07:25 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Sorry...Just feeling vulnerable.
Love,
LT
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-07-2021, 11:46 AM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear Backup T,
Yay, glad we have something scheduled. I was briefly tempted to opt for in person, but I think, especially if you're at the same office, it would be too emotional for me (I just used...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-06-2021, 09:14 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear T,
Oh, I think you're gonna appreciate the baseball vs. (American) football vs. life analogy I just came up with... Especially in the sense that it could help me with perspective on things.
...
Forum: Psychotherapy 07-06-2021, 01:54 PM
Replies: 1,013
Views: 57,836
Posted By LonesomeTonight
Re: Dear T: I really need to tell you something XLVI

Dear Backup T,
I hope you reply at some point in the next day or two. I'd really just like to have an appointment on the books for when Dr. T is away. I know it's not for nearly 2 weeks, but no idea...
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